Aging In Place Concerned Neighbors Fear For Elderly Resident 8/7/2023 | By Amy Dickinson In a tight-knit community, concerned neighbors have noticed that an elderly resident is having trouble getting around. Should they step in to help? See what “Ask Amy” advises. Dear Amy: I live in a very nice community of rental homes. Our houses are close together. It feels like an old-fashioned village and we neighbors help each other out – or leave each other alone, based on preferences and personality. My closest neighbor is elderly and I’ve noticed that she is having an increasing amount of trouble navigating safely. I and other neighbors have stepped in many times to assist her with getting her groceries in or making sure she is safe walking on her front walk when it’s snowy. I’m worried that her needs are increasing and that she might not be safe. Our landlord is very nice, helpful, and often physically present on the property. I’m wondering if I should raise any concerns with him? – Concerned Neighbor Dear Concerned: Sometimes, it really does “take a village.” Yes, you should raise any safety concerns with your landlord. He may be able to modify her home (installing grab bars, etc.) to make it safer for her. He might also communicate with her about contacting friends or family members regarding her needs. Related: A Senior Living Placement Specialist – Helping Individuals and Families Know the Best Next Step In the tradition of the great personal advice columnists, Chicago Tribune’s Amy Dickinson is a plainspoken straight shooter who relates to readers of all ages. She answers personal questions by addressing issues from both her head and her heart. A solid reporter, Dickinson researches her topics to provide readers with informed opinions and answers – ranging from concerned neighbors, to when a mom feels excluded or worn out to having a friend with Alzheimer’s. Ask Amy, P.O. Box 194, Freeville, NY 13068. © 2022 by Amy Dickinson Click here to read more Ask Amy columns curated for a baby boomer audience. Visit this article for safe independent living: The Best Aging in Place Products for Seniors Read More Amy Dickinson